Tried and tested, here are the best date ideas to try with your lover in London

Whether you’re a long-time Londoner or a recent newcomer, the list of things to do in the city can seem endless. London’s packed with some of the world’s best Michelin-starred restaurants, museums that take entire days to explore, and a West End with happenings every night of the week. These all make for scrumptious date night opportunities, but sometimes you need something a little off the beaten rose-petaled path, right? An alternative experience may be the answer; something you’ve never tried before that you’re unlikely to ever forget. From neon naked life painting to immersive bars, we’ve rounded up some of the most fun things to sign up for with your partner.

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The best date ideas in London

1. Be amazed at The Magician’s Table

After an unforgettable afternoon visit, we highly recommend The Magician’s Table to both impress and be impressed. The immersive spectacle is now set at The Vaults in Waterloo, and here, guests enter a world where legendary magician/carnival owner Dieter Roterburg and his glamorous team dazzle guests with close-up magic, live theatre and cocktails. 

Without giving too much away, our jaws dropped while watching the ‘happy memories’ performance, a segment where the audience is asked to recount a joyous moment in their lives, one then plucked and essentially mind-read on stage. It was made all the more delicious with a cocktail from the reception side bar (which can also be delivered to the table). Choose between standard and premium seating and VIP upgrade packages which include extra tableside and backstage tricks. And unlike other magic shows, this one comes with another date night plus: no screaming kids – the whole thing is adults-only. 

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2. Wrap juicy dumplings at the School of Wok

If you’re as partial to yum cha as much as we are, then sign yourselves up for School of Wok’s Introduction to Dim Sum, a full-day extravaganza and the real deal of authentic Asian cookery classes. You’ll master the Chinese cleaver, wrap and fold Jiaozi dumplings, and steam your parcels in traditional bamboo baskets…maybe even so well that those Chinatown visits are halved. The class also teaches you to make other Lazy Susan items, including Beef Ho Fun and our fave, Glutinous Rice in Lotus Leaf. Bring tupperware; there will be leftovers!

All ingredients and equipment are provided, so all you have to do is turn up, keep up (don’t worry, there’s plenty of help!), and have fun under the watch of an expert tutor. A delicious date activity, with plenty to eat and drink on both full-day and half-day (3-hour) sessions, we highly recommend this for foodie couples. In addition to Chinese cuisine, the Covent Garden school offers classes in Vietnamese, Thai, Indonesian, Korean and Japanese cooking.

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3. Distil your own gin at The Whisky Exchange

For a date activity that’s a little more…spirited, swap the cocktail bar for a session at The Whisky Exchange’s Distillery School near London Bridge, where you’ll roll up your sleeves and create a gin that’s entirely your own. This isn’t just sipping samples, but rather a proper hands-on experience. Guided by expert distillers, guests choose botanicals, fire up a miniature copper still and distil a bespoke 70cl bottle to take home. We found the interactive experience felt equal parts creative workshop and boozy adventure. Perfect! And while gin may be our headline act, there are also whisky blending and rum blending sessions if those are your preferred poisons.

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4. Get painting at Art Play

Sip cocktails and unleash your inner artist with a date night at Art Play. This Spitalfields Market studio offers free-flow, unguided sessions—acrylic paints and upcycled canvases included—for couples to let their creative juices flow. There are also guided workshops and courses for those who want to take things more seriously. A party with a paintbrush, especially on Friday/Saturday DJ nights, plus you get to take your creations home.

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5. Enter a new dimension at Sandbox VR

Fancy yourselves a couple of gamers? You’ll be in your element at Sandbox VR, the most advanced virtual reality experience in London (and possibly the planet). Wire up and place your entire body in complete immersion to tackle games including the Netflix Squid Game arena. Participants can play as a duo or in a group of up to six, and there’s also a robot-staffed bar, so you can kick back and watch your efforts on the big screen with a cocktail. Note: wear light clothing, it can get very physical.

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6. Link sausages at Perry’s Butchers

Meat lovers, here’s a date night to salivate over. Perry’s Butchers is the finest independent, family-run butchers’ around, and now you can get a peek into the mastery with their brilliant hands-on sausage-making class. Taking place in either Perry’s Shop or their partner venue, Funky Cellar, together in small groups, you’ll mix, pump and link your own juicy sausages, guided of course by an expert teacher. The session includes a tasting of Perry’s other sausage flavours with mash and gravy, and the butcher’s shop class is BYOB (no fear, Funky Cellar customers – you’re in a wine bar!). Best of all, you go home with 2kg of handmade sausages to enjoy later. Seriously bangers of fun! Look out for Valentine’s specials.

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7. Try Virtual Clay Shooting at Clays Bar

Challenge your other half to a game of clay target shooting at one of London’s coolest immersive gaming venues. Clays Soho recently opened within a stunning 1930s Art Deco building, and it’s a hot spot not just for the interactive gaming but for the food and drink. The menu was created by Roger Olsson, who focuses on sustainably sourced British produce, and the cocktail list marries exceptionally well with every bite. You’ll (electronically) shoot off in up to six unique games designed to challenge your speed, accuracy, and skill. Photos and game results are sent to you afterwards to keepsake. Clays has further outposts in Canary Wharf and The City.

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8. Pour your own candles at K-Craft

Candles ooze romance, especially when they’re handmade. K-Craft offers a variety of Korean-style workshops in their Stratford, London studio. The instructor-led, hobby-focused classes include Korean candle-making, floral arrangement, soap and bubble bar crafting, and Moru Doll making. Candles are simple enough to be made by anyone, and after a session here, you’ll head home with the most beautiful wax works, possibly even too beautiful to burn (right away!). A great alternative date night and a chance to explore a new part of town.

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9. Become Rydell High School sweethearts at Grease: The Immersive Movie Musical

Returning to Battersea Park for an eight-week run after a sold-out debut, Grease: The Immersive Movie Musical isn’t just a revival of a beloved film, but a full-blown journey into the world of Rydell High. You’re basically one of Danny and Sandy’s peers, part of the summer romance story, wandering through the school halls, rubbing shoulders with the Pink Ladies and T-Birds, and becoming part of the action as live performances erupt all around.

It’s all on a massive scale that’s uniquely Secret Cinema, and all boundaries between audience and cast disappear. We had such a fun night out at the opening, especially at the fairground finale (you can even buy tokens to get on the rides!). Whether you’re a Grease fan or looking for a memorable summer date night activity in London, this high-energy production delivers plenty of “you’re the one that I want” moments with your partner. Dressing up is encouraged!

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10. Soar up The Chimney Lift at Battersea Power Station (then hit Arcade for global deliciousness!)

After Grease, soar to new heights together – quite literally – at Battersea Power Station.

The experience begins with a slick multimedia journey through the building’s fascinating history, before ascending guests 109 metres to the top of one of the iconic chimneys. Here, sweeping 360-degree views stretch across London’s skyline, including that of Big Ben and the Shard. Time the visit for golden hour for extra sumptuous sights. 

Once back on solid ground, Arcade is right there waiting to refuel…and it’s got quite the global spread! All you have to do is seat yourself, order by QR code, and work your way through as many kitchens as you can manage. Our faves are the Char Siu Cantonese comforts from Siu Siu, the juicy sushi rolls (esp the Salmon Maki) from Siu Kamon…but there’s also South American, North Indian, Thai, and much, much more. Save room for dessert, because the Solis’ Torta de Chocolate is out of this world. Question is, do you share it or get one each? Yums all the way to the Northern Line.

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11. Go wine tasting at Vagabond’s newest locations

The sparkling new Vagabonds at Carnaby and Canary Wharf take the pressure out of choosing the perfect bottle by letting you sample hundreds of wines by the glass. Pay by card or via the app, then wander between the self-pour machines and discover everything from crisp Albariños to bold Barolos at your own pace. Knowledgeable somms are on hand with more info, and seasonal small plates and sharing boards are available to help soak it all up. 

The beautifully designed Soho flagship features intimate corners and a dedicated tasting space, making it an easy win for couples who’d rather chat over a flight than commit to one bottle all evening, while the just-opened Canary Wharf outpost is ideal for an after-work date if you’re in the finance sector and fancy some waterfront views with that pour. We particularly love that both venues carry a wide variety of English wines, even producing their own in East London (the Vagabond English Bacchus is sensational!). At the end, you can select your fave and purchase it to-go at a bargainous retail rate.  Cheers to that. 

If you love English wines as much as we do, don’t miss our interviews with some of the UK’s finest vineyards, including Chapel Down and Gusbourne.

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12. Duet together (spontaneously) at K-SING

Karaoke may not be the first thing that comes to mind on an early date, but for couples who aren’t afraid to showcase their vocal ‘talents’, or indeed, have the chops to impress a new beau, K-SING is where to hit those high notes and might just be the perfect little icebreaker. 

Stepping into this basement tucked under a souvenir store is a world away, too, and you easily forget that you’re in Haymarket… this is more like Seoul City! Six rooms, five fitting one to four, and one big room for larger parties- are available on a first-come, first-served basis, and therefore ideal for a bit of spontaneity. Simply tap your card and pay-as-you-go! The catalogue of songs available is huge, and searchable in multiple languages. Spice Girls to StayC, we can verify it’s all here! But K-Poppers, this is mostly for you!

Fun, super affordable compared to other karaoke spots in London, and no need to book, K-SING is open 11 am till 11 pm for a spontaneous sing-song. 

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13. Battle a martian invasion at The War of the Worlds: The Immersive Experience

Ever wondered what being in an epic film is like? Wonder no more. You’ll (literally) jump right into a martian invasion at this immersive experience set to Jeff Wayne album, “The Musical Version of The War of The Worlds’. There are 24 insane scenes and 300-foot martian fighting machines brought to life, plus live actors, 3D sound, holographic projections, and VR. In a nutshell, you’ll completely forget this is the City of London. Officially the UK’s longest-running immersive experience.

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14. Knead Bread at Bread Ahead

If you’re not obsessed with Bread Ahead…then you probably haven’t been to Borough Market. The bakery has won legions of fans, and every time we’ve walked past, there’s been a queue. The good news is you can treat your love to a workshop (and therefore, a queue jump!), to learn to make everything from croissants to doughnuts. We’ve done the three-hour Introduction to Italian Baking workshop, where guests make delicious focaccia and ciabatta, and let’s just say there were a lot of crumbs by the time we took ours home. Even after free breaktime treats (hey, we love bread!). A special experience for couples who want to stick together like dough and flour. Classes are also available in Wembley, and the sourdough workshops are especially popular – get in early, sourdough lovers!

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15. Sail the city with GoBoat

Glide through the Docklands and see your office from another angle; GoBoat lets you take the captain’s hat. You don’t need any experience or even a license to drive their easy electric rentals, and an instructor will arm you with everything you need. Speeds reach three knots (or 3.5 mph) so captain and passenger(s) can focus on conversation, enjoying the sights, and having a drink on board. As well as Canary Wharf, the service operates in Paddington, Kingston, and Thames Ditton.

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16. Hit baby one more time at Bunga 90

For ’90s couples, there’s no better place to relive the greatest decade ever than Bunga 90. The Covent Garden venue is a multi-sensory playground, disguised ground level as a video rental store with shelves lined by VHS tapes, a PlayStation 1 and cardboard cutouts of the era. When called, you’re transported through fridge, down a tunnel through time, to a world of Steps, Spice Girls and The Simpsons. Of course, you’ll have to have your cocktail in a Britney Spears-shaped cocktail jar, and try their humongous 20-inch pizzas before the potential Take That karaoke session. Never Forget.

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17. Have a games marathon at Boom Battle Bar

Fancy a game? How about six or seven? You can do it all under one roof at Boom Battle Bar. You and your date can partake in a marathon of competition, spanning Augmented Reality Axe Throwing, Crazier Golf, Augmented Reality Darts, Beer Pong and Shuffleboard, before a champion karaoke finale. And before you think about leaving the venue to refuel, there’s that too (of course!). Juicy burgers and tasty cocktails can be ordered a la carte or part of a pre-booked game ‘n feast package. London Boom Battle venues are at The O2, Ealing, Liverpool Street, Oxford Circus and Wandsworth.

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18. Let street art do the talking at MOCO Museum

Switch things up from the Tate or the V&A and take your art lover to MOCO. The new independent museum in Marble Arch curates modern, contemporary, and street art from the world’s most sought-after names, reflecting society today. Come see the works of Yayoi Kusama, Andy Warhol, Banksy, Damien Hirst, and many more. There are three floors of works as well as a brilliant museum shop for exit souvenirs.

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19. Discover another world with Avora

Fans of films like Avatar, your dreams will come to life at this hot spot. Avora is an immersive new-world cocktail adventure in London, from the creators of ‘Alcotraz’ and ‘Moonshine Saloon’, so you know it’s going to be good. Guests get three potion-style cocktails included in their ticket, with stellar non-alcoholic options available too, and interact with a cast of actors playing botanists and local Avorians against a beautifully theatrical backdrop. The production is such a fantasy that it’s a shock to the senses to exit back onto the streets of East London.

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20. Relax in Bali with 7 Bali Spa

Newlyweds flock to the idyllic Indonesian island for romance, but for the rest of us, 7 Bail Spa right by Oxford Street will do. This tranquil retreat has its own school of massage in Bali, sending its finest over with an authentic Balinese skillset. Couples drift away, without jetlag, on treatments spanning full-body Balinese massage to a chocolate dream for two. It’s less about hotel-style amenities, and more about the top quality of a Southeast Asian massage, so don’t expect pool time. All packages include relaxation time with complimentary light bites, tea and wine or prosecco. 

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21. Catch an unlikely gig at Sofar Sounds

There are regular gigs, and there are Sofar Sounds gigs. Trust us, the latter is way more likely to impress a date. Sofar shows are held in unconventional spaces, with previous venues spanning caves, churches, a toy shop and even a wax museum. It all started in 2009 in a London flat (hence the name), which gathered music lovers in living rooms to enjoy unsigned and upcoming talent. So good was – and is – the team’s ear, that the likes of Billie Eilish and Lola Young were among the newbies who came to play. Grab tickets to a secret event (details are released just before the show), and who knows, you could be watching the next Ed Sheeran together. 

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22. Draw Nudes in the Dark with Neon Naked

Neon Naked offers a life drawing class with a twist. Under psychedelic neon lights, you and your date can sketch beautifully painted models using highlighters. It’s a unique and creative way to spend an evening together.

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23. Master your swing at Puttshack

What’s better than a (semi) competitive couples game at mini golf? A high-tech version! Puttshack uses modern intelligence to elevate your game, so there’s no need to fuss around with pencils and scorecards. Pair that with wacky courses featuring quizzes and penalties, stiff but affordable cocktails, and amazing flatbread pizzas, and this becomes a date night staple. There are four locations in the UK to hit the ball with your beau, including Bank and White City in London.

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24. Let Loose at Fairgame

Both of you will have a blast at Fairgame, Canary Wharf’s indoor funfair for adults. Play classic games from basketball hoops to whack-a-mole in a rain-free environment. Afterwards, enjoy street food and drinks at one of the venue’s three bars.

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25. Explore the London Underground with Hidden Tours

Discover the secrets of the London Underground with Hidden Tours. This year, the Access All Areas tour of Charing Cross reveals disused parts of the station seen in movies like Skyfall, paired with afternoon tea at The Clermont for a memorable date. We also love the Aldwych tour, taking guests down the 1907-opened Aldwych train station (also known as ‘Strand’), a tunnel used in numerous films, TV shows and music videos. 

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26. See a Show at Shakespeare’s Globe

Couples on a budget can experience the magic of Shakespeare’s Globe with affordable £5 standing tickets. They’re available throughout the year, whether you’re seeing Much Ado About Nothing or seasonal greats such as winter’s Pinocchio. A cultural treat that won’t break the bank and afterwards the Southbank makes for a romantic stroll.

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But wait, there’s more…

• Looking for things to do with friends? We have an even longer list of ideas for groups in London. Have fun!
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